Anyway, to break control in TDM there are multiple ways to do it. You can stay together as a team and try to take down the other team's stack little by little, feeding them kills but ultimately weakening them. You could slowly stack up and go for powerups (Quad, Regen, Battlesuit) and use them to regain positions on the map, especially on double-powerup maps like Grim Dungeons or Purgatory.
There are many ways to win and many ways to lose. Watch VODs from European teams in events like ESH, EMS, FTP, and DH, and listen to the commentary and watch the players. That's really the only way to learn what to do by watching the best perform.